Sexual Preference
A Behavioral Explanation


  The only evidence that homosexuality is biologically predetermined is basically a lack of evidence that it is not. In fact, there is no substantial evidence for a biological predetermination for any behavior pattern. Humans are born with physical characteristics that combine with environmental factors to produce patterns of behavior.

  Would you say that Michael Jordan is biologically predetermined to be good at basketball? I would agree he is. He was born with genetic code that resulted in a tall physical frame. With that physical characteristic (and others such as coordination, balance, vision, etc.), he was able to engage in behavior that resulted in reinforcement within the context of playing basketball. In other words, his physical characteristics made Michael Jordan physically likely to be good at basketball. This resulted in others being impressed, picking him for their teams and so on. These consequences for demonstrating ability in sport set Michael on the path to becoming a good basketball player, and baseball player, and golfer, and let's not forget underwear salesman. This is the extent to which genetics determine behavior patterns. Genes endow us with physical attributes that get us started developing behavior patterns; our social environment takes us the rest of the way. This is easier to observe in something like sports. It gets trickier to see the same process with things like emotions and desires, but the basic idea is the same.

  Say for example, two girls live under identical environmental circumstances. They go to the same school, they have the same classes, they behave similarly, they have comparable academic abilities, they are similar in appearance, they come from similar social and economic backgrounds and their families share similar beliefs and values. In every way we can think of, these girls are identical. But let's say one of these girls has large breasts and the other has small breasts. Speaking generally, the girl with large breasts is more likely to get attention from boys as a result of any sexual advances she makes. The girl with small breasts is less likely to experience that kind of reinforcement for sexual advances she attempts to make. One result could be that the girl with large breasts is more likely to behave sexually than the girl with small breasts because her sexual advances are more readily reinforced by boys. Another possibility is that the girl with small breasts must work harder, engage in a wider variety of sexual behavior to get the same response from boys. This could result in her learning to be promiscuous and forward. Remember, with everything else being equal, the physical differences between these two girls set up the possibility for very different behavior patterns. This is the extent to which genetics determines our behavior.

  So the short answer to the question of sexual preference is that social conditioning is the cause of same-sex attraction. I should pause here to point out that not all behavior analysts would agree with this statement and I welcome opposing views. For the time being, however, I will lay out my argument in support of this statement.

  While there is no evidence that biological or genetic determinants contribute much to any kind of behavior pattern, there is a great deal of evidence that sexual preference is conditioned. Notice that I said "sexual preference" is conditioned. I specifically did not say that "same sex attraction" is conditioned. That is to say that humans are born (in my opinion and as far as what I can tell the evidence supports) with no specific sexual preference for anything. (Freud would disagree, but he does so without empirical evidence.) From the moment we are born, our education begins. We are taught the values of those who raise us. We are taught "appropriate" boy and girl behavior. We are taught that it is acceptable for girls to wear pink and boys to wear blue. At my daughter's preschool, when the children wake up from their naps, the girls all get their hair done by the teacher. The boys, of course, do not. We are conditioned by our society to behave according to our gender. This conditioning includes training regarding sexual preferences. Girls are taught to be moms. Boys are asked by adults, "Got a girlfriend yet?" Most, and until recently, all of our culture provides a model of heterosexuality. Because this conditioning is so pervasive, it tends to hide itself. It is so ingrained in our culture that most of us don't know it is occurring and we therefore assume that humans are naturally born heterosexuals. Anyone who claims humans are naturally heterosexual, in order to prove his claim, must discover a way to prevent this conditioning from his test subjects. Any subjects selected from society are already confounded by this social conditioning.

  So, if everything in our culture is arranged to condition humans as heterosexual, how then do so many humans come to be homosexual?


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